#2: SHE’S NOT YOUR TYPE
When you hear a buddy mention he’s surprised you and she ended up together because she’s not your type, it can actually be a good sign. Whether you’ve decided to look past the superficial — her looks, her career choice, her taste in music, etc. — or accept that she has different political or religious views instead of labeling her a communist hippie scourge, it demonstrates that you actually enjoy being with her. Going against “type” shows there’s something else besides habit that attracted you in the first place … a clear sign there’s chemistry.