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How To Tell When Someone Is Lying

There are subtle things liars do that give them away. You just need to know how to spot them.

By Camille Lamb

HT Spot A Liar

ASK QUESTIONS IN REVERSE ORDER
Most liars practice their stories from beginning to end, so asking them to convey information out of sequence can trip them up. “Someone who actually had an experience will have no problem explaining, but a liar will struggle to tell a story backwards,” Woods says. So if your idiot buddy starts to tell a long story about why he was so late meeting you at the bar, interrupt him with questions rather than letting him tell the story from beginning to end.

EXAMINE BODY LANGUAGE
Hands in pockets, head pointed toward the floor, and shoulders slouched are all good indications that a person isn’t being forthcoming. “When you’re honest and feeling good about what you’re saying, your body language is typically up and forward,” she says. “If not, your body language will typically go down because you’re trying to control or keep in the information.”

TAGS: body language, lying, tell a lie

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Pramod Bajpai (Fri, 23 Mar 2012 02:23:46 +0000): You learn how to earn money but you never learn how to live --- a basic foundation remains untouched. This is a glory as Existence thinks you are able to create your own blueprint and Existence leaves you free! A Buddha & Jesus are alive --- not simply existing. You can be free only if you are Responsible and that responsibility is to choose rightly!
Winda Clay (Fri, 23 Mar 2012 05:45:38 +0000): Honesty is very expensive. Once people are lying, then it will give birth to a thousand lies to cover up the lie that first. Because in fact, conscience cannot be lied to. It was always seeking the truth and neither do you want to accept the lies. The lies will only cause heart restless and agitated.
(Fri, 23 Mar 2012 12:24:36 +0000): Not necessarily - if someone has experienced trauma, and/or has brain damage or a disorder, then s/he will naturally struggle to verbally communicate so that describing what happened sounds coherent and clear.
(Fri, 23 Mar 2012 12:29:31 +0000): Again, people who have physical difficulty in communication or have a history of being ignored will express a legitimate response (anger) at being once again, dismissed. It happens frequently, for example, especially for women, in a world that does not understand or respect female biology and then those female patients end up with a more severe medical condition, or their reports of being attacked are ignored and the attackers continue to commit crimes.
(Fri, 23 Mar 2012 12:31:42 +0000): What? Only two examples? And this article is written by a female? I have to wonder what her age is, and what are her citations, particularly from a behavioralist or psychological perspective.
Frank Murphy (Fri, 23 Mar 2012 16:14:23 +0000): Wow! Read the article then watched Obama on TV, boy is this guy accurate!
Cyndy Lou NM (Thu, 17 May 2012 13:18:35 +0000): When someone tells u something then when u ask again at another time...the story changes. That would be a dead giveaway of untruthfulness.

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