How to Win a Girl’s Heart
Forget the Hunger Games, games of the heart are where true warriors play. When attempting to win a girl’s heart, there are a few things you should remember.
By Jonathan Hackman
If a guy hopes to win a girl’s heart, he should follow a couple of rules. He must remember that most girls have a more complex expectation of a relationship. Guys must gradually become more important in the emotional life of the girl.
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The initial step is moving from a stranger to a friend, if you’re not already friendly with the girl. Men can be very casual about criticizing one another, but you must be very careful not to step on the feelings of the girl you like. A girl wants to spend time with those who share her interests, opinions and world view. Girls want to be around those who are “nice” to them. A man must communicate “I care” through his words and actions. A word to the wise, however, is not to place yourself too comfortably in her circle of friends. This can land you in the friend zone, which can be difficult to maneuver your way out of.
Remember Her Favorites
During a relationship, remembering a birth date or anniversary is important. A girl expects a guy to show he cares by recalling what she does, what she likes and who she is. Many girls gauge how a guy feels about her by how much time he spends with her.
Her Opinion Matters
As your relationship grows, so must your emotional attachment. Show confidence while allowing her to make more important decisions. Girls will share deeper feelings with their closer friends. Be ready to share these thoughts and feelings. Taking your time to build up a strong emotional bond is how to win a girl’s heart.