When a woman has sex with you for the first time, she’s giving you a gift. Fine, go ahead and roll your eyes. I’ll wait. And get this: “When she wears underwear like this, she’s literally wrapped herself up like a gift,” says Jennifer Baumgartner, PsyD, a clinical psychologist and author of the upcoming book You Are What You Wear.
That means she wants you to make her feel treasured and special. So the key to unleashing her wild side (and believe me, she has one) is to do stuff like light a few candles and pour her a glass of champagne. Cheesy? Maybe, but it’ll work. Oh, and one more thing: This chick likes it when you take control. She dresses extra girly because she’s turned on when you’re manly — so make out with her against the wall, gently tug her hair, etc.