Rule #4: Go Overboard on Foreplay
Even if you’ve hooked up with one or both of the women separately in the past, it’s essential that you move super slowly. Kiss one of the women while allowing your hand to slide down the other’s bare back … and then do similar stuff for a really long time. And always let them take the lead; while you can guide their hands to the right places, let the women undress you instead of you yanking off your own pants. Again, it doesn’t matter if you’ve had sex a million times with each of them separately — this is the first time you’ve all had sex together, and it’s important to make sure they’re both into every single move.
If one of the women seems hesitant, don’t worry. She may come to decide she’d rather watch, and that’s okay. You need to let them figure out not just what they want to do with you, but they want to do with each other. Resist the urge to direct — suggesting they kiss each other will just make you sound like a pervy weirdo from a Judd Apatow movie. And that may be humorous, but it’s definitely not hot.
