#5: People Change
I know I said I might cheat again — and that’s true, but I also firmly believe my cheating was a defense mechanism I used because no one I was with was right. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve realized I do want to be in a serious relationship. Before, I wanted the security of being part of a couple while still having single girl fun. As my friends have gotten married, I’ve started to rethink my stance on relationships, and I want to work harder on my commitment issues.
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That said, I would tell a future boyfriend about my past. I know it’s a tall order to ask for trust after revealing everything, but putting it out there can be a major sign that a woman wants this time to be different; if you find out the woman you’re seeing is like me, give her a chance … or, you know, a free pass.
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