How Chivalrous Should You Be?

Some chivalrous gestures will help win her over. Others will send her packing. We’ll remove the guesswork for you.

By Robin Hilmantel

Do: Open the car door for her
Any guy can (and should) hold a door open for a woman. It’s something strangers do for other strangers entering a CVS. But you actually have to walk to the other side of the car to open that door for us. I’m not saying you have to do it every time, but on a first date or a special occasion, this simple gesture can score you major points.

Don’t: Insist on paying for everything
Offering to foot the bill for dinner and drinks when you first start dating is fine. But suggesting that you fund shopping sprees and mani-pedi appointments? Don’t do it. You’ll come off like a showoff prick who’s enabling her to become dependent on you for everything she wants.

TAGS: dating, relationships, women


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Lily Torres Llitera (Mon, 09 Apr 2012 01:31:53 +0000): Really enjoyed this article. So true, on every point. I especially liked 'Guide her through the room'. I had to explain this to one of my sons once. Because in reality it actually applies to any situation in public. If you stray a few feet away in front of your girl it is like you don't care and other men who notice that might think she's available to be hit on. If that girl catches on to that... she just might respond to other mens come on's by flirting with them right there behind your back! So when you are with your girl, be by her side, always! It's just common sense.
Elizabeth-Anne Curtis (Sun, 10 Jun 2012 16:22:54 +0000): lmao It's been years since I read any articles like this and I find it refreshingly amusing at, honestly, how accurate the majority of this authors thoughts are! lol


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