4 Ways To Turn Her Down
(Without Being A Jerk)

Turn Her Down Without Making Her Hate You

How to Turn Down … Someone From a Dating Site
If you’re repulsed by a “match” who sends you a message, just ignore it. Going radio silent might seem cold, but a reply message to a stranger that thanks her for her interest and then tells her you don’t think you’d be good together might translate into “sorry, I’m too good for you.” Here’s why that’s bad: It’s a small world, and that woman might know someone else you end up going on a date with (a friend, roommate, ex cellmate). Then she gets to sound off about what a rude and conceited assh*le you were to her, which can make things awkward for you. Ignoring her leaves her nothing to discuss.