How to Spice up Your Sex Life: 5 Tips Every Couple Should Try

Did you know that 43% of women and 31% of men report low libido or sexual dysfunction? We did! That is why we have taken the time to write this simple guide for how to spice up your sex life!

You and your partner will relight the flame in no time at all with these five sexy tips. So grab a glass of wine and keep reading!

1. Alone Time 

Before you two get together you need to take yourself on a date with you! You need to discover what you really enjoy and what really turns you on! For some, the idea of desire is wrapped up in intimacy, whereas for others, desire is adventurous and spontaneous, and for some, it’s both. 

Ask yourself what you are craving and have your partner do the same. Spend some time apart and write down what turns you on and then share it. Many women benefit from exploring their bodies alone to discover what works for them sexually, so don’t be afraid to lock the door for a little while!

2. Location Location 

Sex in the bedroom…pretty standard right? Changing the location that you two get down and dirty could be the spark that reignites the fire! In fact, studies show that a surge of excitement could increase arousal in women. 

Try something simple like making love in the shower, carefully of course, or taking advantage of an empty house and making love in the living room, kitchen, or just anywhere you please! If you are feeling extra adventurous rent a hotel room for the night and enjoy each other for the evening. 

3. Sex Toys 

Sex toys can seem intimidating for some, however, the new products that are on the market are geared towards discreetness and comfort especially for newbies. There are toys that you can use that are worn during intercourse and toys that you can use during foreplay. 

Explore your options together with your partner and have fun with it! Take your time exploring different types of toys until you find the perfect fit to spice up your love life. 

4. Be Kinky 

Kink doesn’t have to mean you are fully committing to a BDSM lifestyle! Start slow with each other and test your limits one sexy moment at a time.

For example, you might try a blindfold or role-playing for the evening to get things rolling. It might seem a little silly at first, however, if you fully commit to the process you will be pleasurably rewarded in the end.  

5. Go Slow 

Rushing into the main event can leave one or both partners unsatisfied. Foreplay should not be overlooked. Don’t get us wrong, the occasional quickie has its place, however, when you take the time to get turned on sex will be more enjoyable for both parties!

Knowing How to Spice Up Your Sex Life

These five steamy tips on how to spice up your sex life will have you and your partner unable to keep your hands to yourself. Don’t be afraid of spontaneity or intimacy, just take your time and enjoy one another!

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