5 Secrets For Having a Friend With Benefits

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Set The Ground Rules Immediately
You need to communicate from the beginning to make sure that you’re both on the same page. If there’s discussion before you launch into things — in other words, before the second time that you sleep together — then she can’t get mad when things don’t turn into something more. (Well, she can get mad, but at least you’ll know you aren’t at fault … this time.)

I’m not suggesting you blurt out, “I just want to sleep with you. I don’t want to take you out to dinner” as you’re removing her underwear. Instead, make a comment when you’re not in the middle of making out that lets her know where you stand. Something like: “Listen, you’re awesome, and I’m clearly super attracted to you. But I’m not looking for anything serious. I wanted to let you know before anything happens.”

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If she’s on the same page, set the ground rules. I’m not going to tell you what those ground rules should be because you may be fine with bringing your FWB to parties or talking sporadically during the week, while other dudes would never do those things. Just figure out what you’re both comfortable with and set those rules before things heat up.

Establishing rules and choosing when to finish can be complicated and cumbersome, if you prefer to go straight to the action, perhaps you should evaluate other options, London Escort, is an excellent option if you want to get “sex friends” without worrying about rules, dates, commitments and losing friendship.

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